Infrequently and Frequently Asked Questions

Q: Kiva is Non-Binary, what does that mean?

🎓 Kiva’s gender corner 🎓

“I (Kiva) am non-binary, and use they/she pronouns which by default makes any wedding that involves me getting married queer! Not getting too much into the weeds with pronoun stuff, but, for me (Kiva), they/she pronouns means they/them pronouns are the most accurate for me, but if you are having a hard time using they/them pronouns, she/her pronouns won’t bother me. Please DO NOT use he/him pronouns when talking to or about me, as it makes me very uncomfortable.

If interacting with trans people is something you that doesn’t feel like a normal, everyday thing to you, I recommend reading this short article from Teen Vogue.

Similarly, there are no good non-binary alternatives to bride/groom, so please just refer to me by name or as Emy’s Partner. If you must, we can both be brides 🙂 Once we are married you may also refer to me as Emy’s Spouse.

Q: Why are there different names for Emilia? Which one is right?

Family members will know the bride as Emilia, but with friends she is often known as Rose (her middle name) or by the nickname Emy. These are all correct names so feel free to use whichever one feels familiar to you!

Q: How do I RSVP?

Assuming you’re using the link we sent you, just click the “continue” button below or click the RSVP link at the top! If you aren’t, you can use the code from that same message on the RSVP page to log in 😀.

Q: Will there be a wedding registry?

Yes, we will! We haven’t finished it yet but we will send an update when it’s ready to view.

For any other questions, please contact us at emy-and-kiva@protonmail.com and we will get back to you as soon as we can!